"That's me. I can be me a bit at home, but I'm kind of like a square peg in a round hole"
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The phrasing matters. "I can be me a bit at home" frames authenticity as something rationed, not a personality trait you carry effortlessly. Home is supposed to be the place where the costume comes off; Ralphs suggests the costume never fully does. "A bit" is doing heavy lifting: even in private, he is negotiating space, tone, expectation. For a working musician - especially one shaped by the touring grind and the myth of the uncontainable rock self - that reads less like poetic angst and more like a practical reality. Public identity hardens into habit. The person becomes the brand, and the brand follows you into the kitchen.
Then comes the old cliche, "a square peg in a round hole", but he delivers it like a shrug rather than a manifesto. That matters, too. This is not romanticizing alienation; it's naming a mismatch without pretending it makes him special. The subtext is social geometry: rooms are built for certain kinds of people, and if you don't fit, you either sand yourself down or live with the bruises. Ralphs chooses the bruises, lightly described, which is its own kind of honesty.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ralphs, Mick. (2026, January 15). That's me. I can be me a bit at home, but I'm kind of like a square peg in a round hole. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-me-i-can-be-me-a-bit-at-home-but-im-kind-of-93444/
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Ralphs, Mick. "That's me. I can be me a bit at home, but I'm kind of like a square peg in a round hole." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-me-i-can-be-me-a-bit-at-home-but-im-kind-of-93444/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That's me. I can be me a bit at home, but I'm kind of like a square peg in a round hole." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-me-i-can-be-me-a-bit-at-home-but-im-kind-of-93444/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









