"That's the hard part about sport: as men we haven't started to be in our prime, but as athletes we are old people. I needed support. I lost trust and did stupid things"
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Becker’s intent feels less like self-pity than self-diagnosis. “I needed support” lands as the quietest sentence and the most revealing one: the myth of the self-sufficient champion collapses into a basic human need that the sports machine often treats as weakness or distraction. When he follows with “I lost trust,” he implies a surrounding ecosystem - coaches, handlers, institutions, maybe even family or the media - that can exploit a star’s dependence while insisting he perform invulnerability.
“I did stupid things” is the blunt, almost boyish phrasing of someone trying to own his mistakes without romanticizing them. It also gestures at how fame amplifies ordinary bad decisions into career-defining scandals. The subtext: accountability matters, but so does recognizing how elite sport manufactures isolation, accelerates pressure, and then acts shocked when the athlete buckles. Becker isn’t asking for absolution; he’s arguing that the costs were baked in long before the tabloid headline.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Becker, Boris. (2026, January 17). That's the hard part about sport: as men we haven't started to be in our prime, but as athletes we are old people. I needed support. I lost trust and did stupid things. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-the-hard-part-about-sport-as-men-we-havent-72444/
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Becker, Boris. "That's the hard part about sport: as men we haven't started to be in our prime, but as athletes we are old people. I needed support. I lost trust and did stupid things." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-the-hard-part-about-sport-as-men-we-havent-72444/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That's the hard part about sport: as men we haven't started to be in our prime, but as athletes we are old people. I needed support. I lost trust and did stupid things." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-the-hard-part-about-sport-as-men-we-havent-72444/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.





