"That's the thing about suicide. Try as you might to remember how a person lived his life, you always end up thinking about how he ended it"
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The specific intent is corrective, not sensational. Cooper isn’t romanticizing suicide; he’s naming the cognitive trap it sets for survivors. We want a coherent narrative, and suicide offers a terrifyingly “coherent” final act, an ending that demands explanation. Subtextually, that’s also an indictment of how we, and the culture around us, treat people as their most dramatic moment. We reduce a complicated person to a single data point because it’s easier to process and easier to tell.
Context matters: Cooper’s public life has included reporting on loss and, notably, speaking about his own family history of suicide. That proximity gives the line its emotional authority without tipping into confession. It’s journalism turned inward: a recognition that even trained narrators can’t control the storyline once suicide enters it. The quote works because it refuses comfort. It doesn’t offer closure; it exposes how closure is exactly what we’re grasping for, and how that grasp can quietly erase the life that came before.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cooper, Anderson. (2026, January 18). That's the thing about suicide. Try as you might to remember how a person lived his life, you always end up thinking about how he ended it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-the-thing-about-suicide-try-as-you-might-to-15219/
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Cooper, Anderson. "That's the thing about suicide. Try as you might to remember how a person lived his life, you always end up thinking about how he ended it." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-the-thing-about-suicide-try-as-you-might-to-15219/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That's the thing about suicide. Try as you might to remember how a person lived his life, you always end up thinking about how he ended it." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-the-thing-about-suicide-try-as-you-might-to-15219/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.








