"That's what he was saying, the civil rights movement - judge me for my character, not how black my skin is, not how yellow my skin is, how short I am, how tall or fat or thin; It's by my character"
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The subtext is aimed at two audiences at once. To people who think racism is solved because we learned the right sentence, she’s saying: repeating the mantra doesn’t equal practicing it. To people who treat identity as destiny, she’s insisting on agency - character as the part of the self you build, not the part assigned to you. Coming from Grier, it also carries the weight of her career: a Black woman who became iconic in an industry that both fetishized and policed her image. Hollywood has always been a factory for shortcuts - types, silhouettes, “marketable” categories. Her insistence on character is a refusal of that reduction.
What makes it work is its plainspoken moral clarity. No flourish, no theory, just a line that sounds like someone drawing a boundary: you don’t get to decide who I am by scanning my surface.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grier, Pam. (2026, January 16). That's what he was saying, the civil rights movement - judge me for my character, not how black my skin is, not how yellow my skin is, how short I am, how tall or fat or thin; It's by my character. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-what-he-was-saying-the-civil-rights-115628/
Chicago Style
Grier, Pam. "That's what he was saying, the civil rights movement - judge me for my character, not how black my skin is, not how yellow my skin is, how short I am, how tall or fat or thin; It's by my character." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-what-he-was-saying-the-civil-rights-115628/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That's what he was saying, the civil rights movement - judge me for my character, not how black my skin is, not how yellow my skin is, how short I am, how tall or fat or thin; It's by my character." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-what-he-was-saying-the-civil-rights-115628/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.




