"That's what they do in Europe. You go down to the city hall and you become legally connected. You have a civil union there. Then, if you're religious, you go down to the church, and the church blesses the union. That gets the problem solved"
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The crucial pivot is his quiet separation of spheres. City hall handles the contract; the church handles the blessing. By insisting on a two-step model, Campolo smuggles in an old liberal idea with a religious face: the state should distribute rights without asking permission from doctrine, and churches should retain autonomy over sacraments without governing civil status. The subtext is a rebuke to both sides of the American debate. To conservatives, he's saying: stop using civil law to enforce your ecclesiology. To progressives, he's implying: you don't need to win the church to win equality under law.
"That gets the problem solved" is deliberately reductive. It's not that the moral disagreements vanish; it's that the administrative nightmare and coercion anxiety vanish. Coming from a clergyman known for evangelical social justice, the line reads less like secularization and more like a peace proposal: keep the church's conscience intact while refusing to let conscience become a veto over citizenship. In the era of marriage amendments and culture-war brinkmanship, it's a bid to de-escalate by redefining what marriage debates are actually about: power, jurisdiction, and who gets to call their love legitimate.
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Campolo, Tony. (2026, January 16). That's what they do in Europe. You go down to the city hall and you become legally connected. You have a civil union there. Then, if you're religious, you go down to the church, and the church blesses the union. That gets the problem solved. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-what-they-do-in-europe-you-go-down-to-the-107979/
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Campolo, Tony. "That's what they do in Europe. You go down to the city hall and you become legally connected. You have a civil union there. Then, if you're religious, you go down to the church, and the church blesses the union. That gets the problem solved." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-what-they-do-in-europe-you-go-down-to-the-107979/.
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"That's what they do in Europe. You go down to the city hall and you become legally connected. You have a civil union there. Then, if you're religious, you go down to the church, and the church blesses the union. That gets the problem solved." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-what-they-do-in-europe-you-go-down-to-the-107979/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

