"The ability to take pleasure in one's life is a skill and is a kind of intelligence. So intelligence is a hard thing to evaluate and it manifests itself in so many different ways. I do think the ability to know how to live a life and not be miserable is a sign of that"
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Pleasure, in Todd Solondz's universe, is never a given; it's a craft project assembled with shaky hands. His line reframes "intelligence" away from the usual meritocratic scoreboard (IQ, credentials, verbal fluency) and toward a quieter, harder-to-measure competence: the knack for inhabiting your own life without turning it into a long punishment. Coming from a writer-director famed for bleak suburban comedies and characters who can't stop stepping on emotional rakes, the statement lands like a sly corrective to the culture's fetish for measurable brilliance.
The intent is a values swap. Solondz isn't romanticizing happiness as a personality trait; he's demoting misery from its status as proof of depth. The subtext: we routinely reward the kinds of smart that look impressive in public, while ignoring the kinds that keep a person afloat in private. In his films, people can be articulate, educated, even morally certain, and still catastrophically incompetent at living. That gap is the point.
It also carries a provocation aimed at artistic circles: suffering may be narratively juicy, but it isn't automatically wise. Calling pleasure "a skill" implies training, attention, and agency - choices, habits, boundaries, maybe even help - rather than the glamorous fatalism of being "broken". And by labeling it "a kind of intelligence", he pushes against a culture that treats mental health as either self-help fluff or medicalized defect, instead positioning it as a form of practical mastery. Not being miserable becomes less a baseline expectation and more an earned, underrated achievement.
The intent is a values swap. Solondz isn't romanticizing happiness as a personality trait; he's demoting misery from its status as proof of depth. The subtext: we routinely reward the kinds of smart that look impressive in public, while ignoring the kinds that keep a person afloat in private. In his films, people can be articulate, educated, even morally certain, and still catastrophically incompetent at living. That gap is the point.
It also carries a provocation aimed at artistic circles: suffering may be narratively juicy, but it isn't automatically wise. Calling pleasure "a skill" implies training, attention, and agency - choices, habits, boundaries, maybe even help - rather than the glamorous fatalism of being "broken". And by labeling it "a kind of intelligence", he pushes against a culture that treats mental health as either self-help fluff or medicalized defect, instead positioning it as a form of practical mastery. Not being miserable becomes less a baseline expectation and more an earned, underrated achievement.
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