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Life & Wisdom Quote by Maya Angelou

"The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned"

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Angelou doesn’t romanticize “home” as a postcard place; she frames it as a bodily need, an ache, as if belonging is a kind of hunger. That word choice matters. An ache isn’t nostalgic mood music - it’s persistent, sometimes sharp, and it doesn’t resolve just because you keep busy. By casting the longing as something that “lives in all of us,” she’s doing two things at once: universalizing the desire to belong while quietly insisting it’s not a luxury. It’s infrastructure.

The second half tightens the moral screws. “The safe place” isn’t defined by furniture or geography but by permission: “as we are.” Angelou’s subtext is that the world is often a tribunal, sorting bodies and stories into acceptable and suspect. “Not be questioned” lands with particular force for anyone who has been interrogated by institutions, neighbors, or even family about identity, respectability, or worth. The line suggests that the most exhausting thing isn’t danger alone; it’s scrutiny - the demand to explain yourself into legitimacy.

Contextually, Angelou’s life and work orbit displacement and reclamation: Black womanhood under racism and sexism, the fragility of safety, the labor of self-definition. Her “home” is as much psychological as physical, a counter-space to a society that polices presence. The intent isn’t to sentimentalize retreat; it’s to name what people seek when the public world makes them perform. Home, here, is the one place where the performance can stop.

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Unverified source: All God's Children Need Traveling Shoes (Maya Angelou, 1986)
Text match: 70.00%   Provider: Cross-Reference
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This line appears as part of a longer passage in Maya Angelou’s autobiographical book *All God's Children Need Traveling Shoes* (first published 1986). The quote is widely reproduced (often as a standalone sentence) and is attributed back to this book by multiple secondary references; however, I ...
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Angelou, Maya. (2026, January 13). The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-ache-for-home-lives-in-all-of-us-the-safe-26711/

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Angelou, Maya. "The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-ache-for-home-lives-in-all-of-us-the-safe-26711/.

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"The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-ache-for-home-lives-in-all-of-us-the-safe-26711/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Maya Angelou

Maya Angelou (born April 4, 1928) is a Poet from USA.

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