"The advantage of the emotions is that they lead us astray"
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The subtext is pure Wildean sabotage. The Victorian era prized self-control as civic virtue and emotional restraint as class signal. Wilde answers by implying that the straight path is overrated, maybe even suspect. Emotion, in his view, doesn’t merely interrupt good judgment; it reveals how much of "good judgment" is social choreography. If feelings derail you, that derailment might be the first honest motion you’ve made all day.
Context matters: Wilde’s work lives in rooms where manners are weaponized and sincerity is either punished or performed. His characters fall in love, lie, flirt, and rationalize with the airy confidence of people who think rules are for other people. Against that backdrop, being "led astray" becomes an artistic and ethical strategy: refuse the tidy narrative of rational self-mastery, and you might stumble into truth, pleasure, or at least a more interesting catastrophe. Wilde isn’t preaching impulsiveness; he’s puncturing the pomp of those who confuse composure with character.
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Wilde, Oscar. (2026, January 14). The advantage of the emotions is that they lead us astray. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-advantage-of-the-emotions-is-that-they-lead-37154/
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"The advantage of the emotions is that they lead us astray." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-advantage-of-the-emotions-is-that-they-lead-37154/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



