"The amazing thing is that I'm sane. I'm not bitter. I'm not drugged out. I'm not broke. I'm still married to the same guy. My children don't hate me"
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The subtext is a quiet indictment of the industry and the audience that consumes its cautionary tales. Lee doesn’t name the pressures - men in suits, relentless touring, the sexualization of young performers, the way “legend” often means “used up” - but the negatives do the work. By framing stability as astonishing, she exposes how abnormal it is for a star to keep ordinary things intact.
Then she pivots to the real punchline: “still married to the same guy… My children don’t hate me.” That’s not quaint domesticity; it’s reputation rehab against a culture that treats family as collateral damage to the brand. Lee’s intent feels less like self-congratulation than recalibration: the scoreboard is private now. After a career built on public voice, she measures success by the people who had to live with it.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lee, Brenda. (2026, January 17). The amazing thing is that I'm sane. I'm not bitter. I'm not drugged out. I'm not broke. I'm still married to the same guy. My children don't hate me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-amazing-thing-is-that-im-sane-im-not-bitter-75116/
Chicago Style
Lee, Brenda. "The amazing thing is that I'm sane. I'm not bitter. I'm not drugged out. I'm not broke. I'm still married to the same guy. My children don't hate me." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-amazing-thing-is-that-im-sane-im-not-bitter-75116/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The amazing thing is that I'm sane. I'm not bitter. I'm not drugged out. I'm not broke. I'm still married to the same guy. My children don't hate me." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-amazing-thing-is-that-im-sane-im-not-bitter-75116/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.






