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"The antagonisms between men and women express themselves in the most delicate phase of their life together - in their sexual relationship"

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James goes straight for the pressure point: sex, the zone modern culture insists is private, natural, even apolitical. By calling it “the most delicate phase” of life together, he’s not romanticizing the bedroom; he’s flagging it as a high-sensitivity instrument, where the slightest imbalance gets amplified. “Antagonisms” is the tell. It’s a word from conflict, not compatibility, and it implies that what passes as intimacy often carries the residue of unequal power, economic dependency, social expectation, and emotional bargaining.

The line works because it refuses the comforting split between public life (work, politics, institutions) and private life (desire, marriage, the body). James, a Marxist-inflected journalist and historian of mass struggle, typically reads society through domination and resistance; here he’s extending that lens to gender. The subtext is blunt: you can’t build a just society while leaving “personal” relations exempt from scrutiny. If men and women are trained into different roles - breadwinner vs caretaker, chooser vs chosen, subject vs object - those scripts don’t vanish when the lights go out. They reappear as consent shaped by dependence, as desire tangled with entitlement, as tenderness haunted by hierarchy.

Context matters, too. Writing across a century of imperial collapse, labor movements, and feminist agitation, James belongs to a tradition that treated everyday life as a political battleground. The sentence reads like a challenge to both puritan moralism and liberal complacency: don’t look for gender conflict only in laws or wages; watch how it manifests where people think they are freest.

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James, C. L. R. (2026, January 17). The antagonisms between men and women express themselves in the most delicate phase of their life together - in their sexual relationship. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-antagonisms-between-men-and-women-express-42936/

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James, C. L. R. "The antagonisms between men and women express themselves in the most delicate phase of their life together - in their sexual relationship." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-antagonisms-between-men-and-women-express-42936/.

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"The antagonisms between men and women express themselves in the most delicate phase of their life together - in their sexual relationship." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-antagonisms-between-men-and-women-express-42936/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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C. L. R. James (January 4, 1901 - May 19, 1989) was a Journalist from Trinidad and Tobago.

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