"The art of acceptance is the art of making someone who has just done you a small favor wish that he might have done you a greater one"
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The subtext is powerfully nonviolent. Instead of coercion, it proposes a kind of ethical leverage: make incremental goodwill uncomfortable. In civil rights terms, this is the alchemy of turning polite sympathy into costly solidarity. A donation, a statement, a small accommodation can become the first step in a staircase the benefactor didn’t know they were climbing, because now their self-image is implicated. They’ve entered the story. Backing out would mean admitting the favor was more about appearing decent than doing justice.
Calling it an “art” matters. Art implies technique, tact, and an audience. Acceptance isn’t passive gratitude; it’s performance calibrated to shift the room. King, a minister steeped in Christian ideas of grace, also knows that grace can be demanding: it offers people a chance to be better, then quietly holds them to it. The line’s bite is that it treats civility as a lever, not a lullaby.
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Jr., Martin Luther King. (2026, January 17). The art of acceptance is the art of making someone who has just done you a small favor wish that he might have done you a greater one. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-art-of-acceptance-is-the-art-of-making-34350/
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"The art of acceptance is the art of making someone who has just done you a small favor wish that he might have done you a greater one." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-art-of-acceptance-is-the-art-of-making-34350/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










