"The average man has a carefully cultivated ignorance about household matters - from what to do with the crumbs to the grocer's telephone number - a sort of cheerful inefficiency which protects him"
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The brilliance is in the tonal bait-and-switch. Eastman gives the behavior a friendly mask - “cheerful inefficiency” - the way society often rewards men for being “bad at” things women are expected to master without applause. “Cheerful” implies no malice, only a grin. That grin is the cover story. “Protects him” is the tell: protection from what? From time lost, from mental load, from dependence acknowledged, from the adult reciprocity that would make domestic work visible as work.
Context matters. Eastman, a lawyer and a major feminist thinker of the early 20th century, was writing in an era when women’s entrance into public life collided with the stubborn privatization of housework. Her sentence reads like a legal argument smuggled into social satire: intent (cultivated), mechanism (inefficiency), benefit (protection). It indicts not individual men so much as a culture that teaches obliviousness as a gendered privilege - and calls that privilege what it is: an escape hatch.
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Eastman, Crystal. (2026, January 17). The average man has a carefully cultivated ignorance about household matters - from what to do with the crumbs to the grocer's telephone number - a sort of cheerful inefficiency which protects him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-average-man-has-a-carefully-cultivated-43970/
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Eastman, Crystal. "The average man has a carefully cultivated ignorance about household matters - from what to do with the crumbs to the grocer's telephone number - a sort of cheerful inefficiency which protects him." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-average-man-has-a-carefully-cultivated-43970/.
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"The average man has a carefully cultivated ignorance about household matters - from what to do with the crumbs to the grocer's telephone number - a sort of cheerful inefficiency which protects him." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-average-man-has-a-carefully-cultivated-43970/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











