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Life & Wisdom Quote by Francis Quarles

"The average person's ear weighs what you are, not what you were"

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Trust the crowd’s hearing to be a kind of moral scale: it measures your current heft, not your origin story. Quarles, a 17th-century English poet steeped in devotional writing and the hard-edged realism of a society obsessed with reputation, turns “ear” into a social instrument - not just for listening, but for judging. The line is compact, almost proverb-like, built to stick in the mind the way sermons and maxims did in his world.

The intent is less tender wisdom than a warning. “Average person” isn’t flattering; it’s a quiet sneer at the mob’s shallow attention span and quick verdicts. The ear “weighs” you - suggesting appraisal, commerce, even a courtroom - yet it weighs “what you are,” a present-tense snapshot. Past virtue, former status, prior suffering: all can be filed under irrelevant if your current behavior doesn’t match. That’s both cynical and bracing. Quarles is telling you not to expect mercy from public opinion and not to rely on inherited credit.

The subtext carries a Protestant ethical bite: identity isn’t a claim you make, it’s a practice you sustain. In a culture where honor could be made or broken by rumor, the line also reads like reputational self-defense: if people judge by the now, guard the now. It works because it refuses nostalgia. It’s an anti-memoir sentence, skeptical of narratives that beg, “But you should’ve seen me then.”

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Quarles, Francis. (2026, January 17). The average person's ear weighs what you are, not what you were. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-average-persons-ear-weighs-what-you-are-not-54651/

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Quarles, Francis. "The average person's ear weighs what you are, not what you were." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-average-persons-ear-weighs-what-you-are-not-54651/.

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"The average person's ear weighs what you are, not what you were." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-average-persons-ear-weighs-what-you-are-not-54651/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Francis Quarles (May 8, 1592 - September 8, 1644) was a Poet from England.

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