"The average person's ear weighs what you are, not what you were"
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The intent is less tender wisdom than a warning. “Average person” isn’t flattering; it’s a quiet sneer at the mob’s shallow attention span and quick verdicts. The ear “weighs” you - suggesting appraisal, commerce, even a courtroom - yet it weighs “what you are,” a present-tense snapshot. Past virtue, former status, prior suffering: all can be filed under irrelevant if your current behavior doesn’t match. That’s both cynical and bracing. Quarles is telling you not to expect mercy from public opinion and not to rely on inherited credit.
The subtext carries a Protestant ethical bite: identity isn’t a claim you make, it’s a practice you sustain. In a culture where honor could be made or broken by rumor, the line also reads like reputational self-defense: if people judge by the now, guard the now. It works because it refuses nostalgia. It’s an anti-memoir sentence, skeptical of narratives that beg, “But you should’ve seen me then.”
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Quarles, Francis. (2026, January 17). The average person's ear weighs what you are, not what you were. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-average-persons-ear-weighs-what-you-are-not-54651/
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Quarles, Francis. "The average person's ear weighs what you are, not what you were." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-average-persons-ear-weighs-what-you-are-not-54651/.
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"The average person's ear weighs what you are, not what you were." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-average-persons-ear-weighs-what-you-are-not-54651/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






