"The beginning of an acquaintance, whether with persons or things, is to get a definite outline of our ignorance"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “Definite outline” turns ignorance into an object you can draw around, implying humility as a practical tool rather than a pious pose. You cannot learn a person or a “thing” (an idea, a system, a craft) until you stop mistaking your projections for understanding. That’s the subtext: first encounters tempt us to fill in blanks with confidence, to treat familiarity as intimacy. Eliot punctures that reflex by defining true acquaintance as the moment your assumptions become visible.
Contextually, it fits her Victorian preoccupation with the limits of judgment in a rapidly expanding world: new sciences, new social classes, new political arguments, new kinds of strangers. Eliot’s novels are crowded with characters ruined not by malice but by premature certainty. This sentence is her quiet antidote: begin by locating the ignorance you’re carrying into the room. It’s an ethics of attention disguised as an epistemology, insisting that knowing starts when you can name what you’re missing.
Quote Details
| Topic | Knowledge |
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| Source | Verified source: Daniel Deronda (George Eliot, 1876)
Evidence: The beginning of an acquaintance whether with persons or things is to get a definite outline for our ignorance. (Book II (“Meeting Streams”), Chapter XI). This line appears as the epigraph heading Chapter XI of Book II (“Meeting Streams”) in George Eliot’s novel Daniel Deronda. The Wikisource scan is from the 1876 edition (Vol. I) and shows the quote immediately above the chapter’s opening paragraph. Other candidates (1) George Eliot (Daniel Coenn, 2014) compilation95.0% ... The beginning of an acquaintance whether with persons or things is to get a definite outline of our ignorance . "... |
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"The beginning of an acquaintance, whether with persons or things, is to get a definite outline of our ignorance." FixQuotes, 27 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-beginning-of-an-acquaintance-whether-with-28253/. Accessed 5 Mar. 2026.










