"The best thing is being really close. The worst thing is being really close"
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The intent feels less like wisdom than an honest report from inside intimacy. "Really close" is where the good stuff lives - comfort, loyalty, the kind of understanding you don't have to explain. It's also where you lose oxygen. Proximity makes everything louder: your partner's habits, your friend's disappointments, your own insecurity. If you're far away, conflict can be edited. Up close, there's no filter, no reset button, no fantasy version of the other person to hide behind.
The subtext is that closeness is a risk you keep choosing even when you know the downside. It's about co-dependence without the clinical label: the way attachment can feel like home and trap at the same time. For musicians who've grown up in public - touring, tabloids, fan expectations - "close" has extra pressure. Your inner circle becomes both sanctuary and microscope. The people nearest to you can stabilize you, or be the ones who can hurt you fastest.
It's a neat capsule of adult relationships in an era that fetishizes "boundaries" but still craves total access. Madden makes the paradox feel less like a problem to solve than a truth to live with.
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"The best thing is being really close. The worst thing is being really close." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-thing-is-being-really-close-the-worst-147133/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






