"The best thing to do with the best things in life is to give them up"
About this Quote
The line works because it weaponizes repetition. “Best” appears twice, turning abundance into a burden: if the “best things” are truly best, then relinquishing them becomes the ultimate proof of character. Bierce exposes how easily lofty ideals can be used to police desire, especially in a culture that romanticizes sacrifice. The subtext is not “renounce attachment”; it’s “notice how moral language can be engineered to make you grateful for loss.”
Context matters: Bierce wrote in the long shadow of the Civil War and the Gilded Age, when grand rhetoric about honor, duty, and refinement often papered over brutality, greed, and broken bodies. As a journalist, he watched public language get laundered into uplift. This aphorism feels like a small, elegant act of counter-reporting. If the “best things” keep slipping away - youth, love, security - society will tell you to call it a choice. Bierce replies: fine, let’s follow that logic to its bleak conclusion and see how ridiculous it sounds.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bierce, Ambrose. (2026, January 17). The best thing to do with the best things in life is to give them up. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-thing-to-do-with-the-best-things-in-life-33110/
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Bierce, Ambrose. "The best thing to do with the best things in life is to give them up." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-thing-to-do-with-the-best-things-in-life-33110/.
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"The best thing to do with the best things in life is to give them up." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-thing-to-do-with-the-best-things-in-life-33110/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.










