"The best time to frame an answer to the letters of a friend, is the moment you receive them. Then the warmth of friendship, and the intelligence received, most forcibly cooperate"
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The line “warmth of friendship” does quiet work. It treats affection as a kind of heat that can be dissipated by delay, suggesting that late replies aren’t neutral; they’re thermodynamic betrayals. Then Shenstone pairs warmth with “the intelligence received,” as if friendship and thought are two forces that should meet at peak intensity. Subtext: the best reply is not the most polished, but the most accurately timed, written when the reader is still moved and still mentally lit up by what the friend has shared.
Context matters here. Shenstone is writing in an eighteenth-century letter culture where correspondence was both social glue and self-fashioning, often circulated, preserved, reread. That makes his preference for the immediate answer slightly rebellious: he’s privileging lived connection over the curated epistolary persona. The sentence’s own rhythm reinforces the claim - long, balanced, and deliberate, yet aimed at protecting spontaneity. He knows delay produces craft; he’s arguing for craft that still smells like the fire it came from.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Shenstone, William. (2026, January 16). The best time to frame an answer to the letters of a friend, is the moment you receive them. Then the warmth of friendship, and the intelligence received, most forcibly cooperate. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-time-to-frame-an-answer-to-the-letters-97911/
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Shenstone, William. "The best time to frame an answer to the letters of a friend, is the moment you receive them. Then the warmth of friendship, and the intelligence received, most forcibly cooperate." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-time-to-frame-an-answer-to-the-letters-97911/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The best time to frame an answer to the letters of a friend, is the moment you receive them. Then the warmth of friendship, and the intelligence received, most forcibly cooperate." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-time-to-frame-an-answer-to-the-letters-97911/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.










