"The best way to deal with that is to live in a fully conscious, compassionate, loving way. Don't wait until you're on your deathbed to recognize that this is the only way to live"
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Then he pivots from abstract coping to an ethic: "fully conscious, compassionate, loving". The triad is doing rhetorical work. "Conscious" is attention, the antidote to autopilot; "compassionate" is social awareness, the antidote to isolation; "loving" is commitment, the antidote to performative niceness. He’s not prescribing happiness. He’s prescribing a stance toward time and other people that makes loss legible and bearable.
The knife twist is the deathbed line. It’s not just a memento mori; it’s an indictment of procrastinated values. Schwartz is calling out the cultural habit of treating meaning like retirement savings: something you cash in later, after career, after hustle, after you’ve earned the right to be present. He reframes love and consciousness as practical, immediate choices rather than sentimental ideals, and he uses the deathbed as a deadline you can’t negotiate with.
Context matters: as an educator associated with end-of-life reflection (popularized through "Tuesdays with Morrie"), Schwartz speaks from a place where abstraction collapses. The intent isn’t to moralize; it’s to strip away the comforting lie that real living can be postponed.
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Schwartz, Morrie. (2026, January 18). The best way to deal with that is to live in a fully conscious, compassionate, loving way. Don't wait until you're on your deathbed to recognize that this is the only way to live. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-way-to-deal-with-that-is-to-live-in-a-5170/
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Schwartz, Morrie. "The best way to deal with that is to live in a fully conscious, compassionate, loving way. Don't wait until you're on your deathbed to recognize that this is the only way to live." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-way-to-deal-with-that-is-to-live-in-a-5170/.
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"The best way to deal with that is to live in a fully conscious, compassionate, loving way. Don't wait until you're on your deathbed to recognize that this is the only way to live." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-way-to-deal-with-that-is-to-live-in-a-5170/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.










