"The best way to sell yourself to others is first to sell the others to yourself"
About this Quote
The intent is practical and transactional: persuasion starts as an internal campaign. If you don’t buy your own story, your voice wobbles, your posture betrays you, your pitch turns apologetic. Hill frames belief as a prerequisite to influence, as if conviction is a commodity you have to purchase before you can resell it. That’s classic Hill: ambition treated like a system, psychology treated like leverage.
The subtext is slightly darker. “Others” aren’t partners in a conversation; they’re inventory in your mental storehouse. “Sell the others to yourself” implies you should pre-approve people, pre-like them, pre-imagine them nodding along. It’s a way of manufacturing rapport: decide they’re worth it, decide they’ll respond, and your behavior will follow. It’s also a prophylactic against rejection. If you convince yourself the room is receptive, you can risk being bold.
Context matters: Hill wrote in the early 20th-century American hustle boom, when salesmanship, optimism, and “mind power” were merging into a secular religion. The quote works because it treats confidence not as a mood but as strategy - and because it quietly admits the truth behind most “natural” charm: it’s rehearsed belief.
Quote Details
| Topic | Sales |
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| Source | Later attribution: Fabulous Over Forty (Josie Slaton Terry, 2009) modern compilationISBN: 9781607994824 · ID: voBi4l7CLSQC
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"The best way to sell yourself to others is first to sell the others to yourself." FixQuotes, 12 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-best-way-to-sell-yourself-to-others-is-first-20615/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.











