"The better I get to know men, the more I find myself loving dogs"
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The sentence pivots on comparison, and the comparison is rigged. "Get to know men" implies proximity to the species at its most revealing: not the citizen waving flags, but the colleague cutting deals, the rival leaking rumors, the crowd cheering today and punishing tomorrow. The more intimacy he gains, the less charitable he becomes. Dogs, in this moral economy, are the foil: unambiguous loyalty, affection without ideological costume, devotion that doesn't need a press conference. It's a rhetorical retreat to a smaller, safer social contract.
De Gaulle's intent is not misanthropy for its own sake. It's a controlled expression of disappointment from someone tasked with believing in a national "we" while repeatedly encountering the private "me". The subtext is political: if leaders learn too much about how "men" operate, they risk losing faith in the very material democracy is made of. Yet the line also protects him. By praising dogs rather than directly condemning humans, he vents disgust without naming names, turning bitterness into wit. It's the kind of cynicism that lets a leader keep governing after seeing what governance really costs.
Quote Details
| Topic | Dog |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Quote Verifier (Ralph Keyes, 2007) modern compilationISBN: 9781429906173 · ID: d6JZryGvfxYC
Evidence:
... The better I get to know men , the more I find myself loving DOGS . " ( “ Plus je apprend à connaître l'homme , plus je apprend à estimer le chien . " ) This observation is generally credited to Charles de Gaulle , ap- parently on ... |
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