"The biggest surprise about our marriage is that Erin was out there"
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The phrasing “Erin was out there” does a lot of cultural work. It’s romantic, but not syrupy; it borrows the language of searching, almost like she’s a rare signal in a noisy world. “Out there” suggests a marketplace of possibility - dating as scavenger hunt, love as improbable find. That’s a very modern framing, especially for a public figure: he’s not selling fate, he’s selling odds.
There’s subtext, too, about respectability and stability. In an entertainment culture built on breakups-as-content, a durable marriage becomes a quiet flex, and Denton’s joke makes that durability feel earned rather than performative. It’s also a gentle rebalancing of power: he’s the famous one, yet the surprise is that someone like her would choose him. The line flatters Erin, disarms the room, and humanizes Denton in a single breath - the classic late-night anecdote cadence, built to travel well in interviews and to sound spontaneous even when it’s not.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Denton, James. (2026, January 17). The biggest surprise about our marriage is that Erin was out there. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-biggest-surprise-about-our-marriage-is-that-75740/
Chicago Style
Denton, James. "The biggest surprise about our marriage is that Erin was out there." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-biggest-surprise-about-our-marriage-is-that-75740/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The biggest surprise about our marriage is that Erin was out there." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-biggest-surprise-about-our-marriage-is-that-75740/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.





