"The bold defiance of a woman is the certain sign of her shame, - when she has once ceased to blush, it is because she has too much to blush for"
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The intent is less to describe women than to discipline them. In a society where reputation functioned as currency and salons doubled as political arenas, a woman's composure could read as power. Talleyrand reframes that power as contamination: if she doesn't show the expected bodily signal of modesty, she must be beyond saving. Defiance isn't treated as response to injustice or constraint; it's treated as evidence.
Subtext: the gaze gets to define the crime. Blushing is demanded as proof of virtue, but also as proof of vulnerability - an involuntary confession that keeps the accused legible. Once a woman refuses the script (no blush, no apology), the system declares her "shameless", which conveniently justifies further exclusion. It's a classic elite maneuver: convert resistance into incrimination.
Context matters. Talleyrand survived regime changes by mastering appearances, not ideals. That he frames morality as a matter of public telltales fits a diplomat's worldview: politics as reading faces, controlling impressions, and punishing anyone who stops being readable.
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Talleyrand, Charles Maurice de. (2026, January 18). The bold defiance of a woman is the certain sign of her shame, - when she has once ceased to blush, it is because she has too much to blush for. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-bold-defiance-of-a-woman-is-the-certain-sign-5957/
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Talleyrand, Charles Maurice de. "The bold defiance of a woman is the certain sign of her shame, - when she has once ceased to blush, it is because she has too much to blush for." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-bold-defiance-of-a-woman-is-the-certain-sign-5957/.
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"The bold defiance of a woman is the certain sign of her shame, - when she has once ceased to blush, it is because she has too much to blush for." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-bold-defiance-of-a-woman-is-the-certain-sign-5957/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.














