"The chief difference between words and deeds is that words are always intended for men for their approbation, but deeds can be done only for God"
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Then he swings the moral spotlight to deeds, and the contrast is brutal. A deed, properly understood, doesn’t need witnesses. If it’s truly good, it can survive anonymity; it can even survive being misunderstood. By invoking “God,” Tolstoy isn’t just making a pious point. He’s naming the only audience that can’t be bribed by charm, status, or rhetoric. “God” functions here as shorthand for an absolute standard - a court of appeal where motives matter more than optics.
The subtext is also an indictment of modern public virtue. Talk is cheap not because it’s false, but because it’s structurally incentivized to be self-justifying. Deeds are harder because they cost something and because they can’t be retrofitted as easily into a flattering narrative.
In Tolstoy’s context - his late-life moral and spiritual crisis, his turn against aristocratic privilege, his suspicion of institutions (including the Church) - this reads like a private rule for spiritual hygiene: stop auditioning for people. Act as if the only applause you’ll get is silence.
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"The chief difference between words and deeds is that words are always intended for men for their approbation, but deeds can be done only for God." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-chief-difference-between-words-and-deeds-is-8299/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








