"The circumstances, including my body and my parents, whom I may curse, are my soul's own choice and I do not understand this because I have forgotten"
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Hillman drops a psychic hand grenade: your resentments may be real, but they’re also, at some deeper register, authored by you. By casting “my body and my parents” as “my soul’s own choice,” he deliberately steps outside the therapeutic reflex to locate causality in damage done to us. Instead he locates meaning in the givens we’d most like to put on trial: inheritance, limitation, family. The provocation is the point. If even the curse-worthy parts of our origin story are chosen, the story can’t end in pure victimhood or pure blame.
The subtext is archetypal, not moralistic. Hillman isn’t arguing that trauma is deserved or that suffering is good for you; he’s pushing a mythic frame where the soul has intention, even when the ego has only complaint. “I do not understand this because I have forgotten” is the sly twist: it turns metaphysics into psychology. Forgetting becomes a condition of being human, a built-in amnesia that makes life feel accidental and unfair. The line implies that recovery isn’t primarily about reconstructing the past like a case file; it’s about remembering a prior participation in the shape of one’s life.
Context matters. Hillman, a major voice in archetypal psychology, was famously suspicious of therapy-as-fix-it engineering. He wanted depth over cure, image over explanation, fate over lifestyle optimization. Read that way, the quote is less a doctrine than a tool: a way to make a stuck story move, by relocating agency to the level where meaning, not control, lives.
The subtext is archetypal, not moralistic. Hillman isn’t arguing that trauma is deserved or that suffering is good for you; he’s pushing a mythic frame where the soul has intention, even when the ego has only complaint. “I do not understand this because I have forgotten” is the sly twist: it turns metaphysics into psychology. Forgetting becomes a condition of being human, a built-in amnesia that makes life feel accidental and unfair. The line implies that recovery isn’t primarily about reconstructing the past like a case file; it’s about remembering a prior participation in the shape of one’s life.
Context matters. Hillman, a major voice in archetypal psychology, was famously suspicious of therapy-as-fix-it engineering. He wanted depth over cure, image over explanation, fate over lifestyle optimization. Read that way, the quote is less a doctrine than a tool: a way to make a stuck story move, by relocating agency to the level where meaning, not control, lives.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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