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Love Quote by Steve Ross

"The city's contradictions and frailties drive me to the church. The church, in turn, binds my wounds and soothes my troubled heart, and sends me right back out into the city again"

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Ross frames the city as both injury and engine: its “contradictions and frailties” don’t just disappoint him, they actively propel him toward refuge. The phrasing is telling. Contradictions suggest moral whiplash - wealth beside need, ambition beside loneliness - while frailties points to the city’s human scale, the small failures that accumulate into spiritual fatigue. He’s not romanticizing urban grit; he’s admitting it grinds him down.

Then comes the pivot: church as a kind of emotional infrastructure. “Binds my wounds” is physical, almost clinical language, casting faith less as ideology than as triage. “Soothes my troubled heart” adds the intimate, private dimension a public city often denies. For a businessman, that matters: the professional self is trained to perform competence, to metabolize chaos into productivity. This quote quietly confesses the cost of that performance and names church as the place where the mask can come off, where exhaustion is allowed to register as pain.

The most important move is the ending: it “sends me right back out.” This isn’t escape; it’s a cycle of restoration and return, like charging a battery and re-entering the grid. Subtext: faith becomes a mechanism for staying engaged with the very environment that causes distress. It’s also a moral alibi and a moral challenge - the church doesn’t just comfort him from the city’s brokenness, it pushes him back into it, implying responsibility, service, or at least renewed patience. The line works because it refuses purity: healing isn’t withdrawal, it’s replenishment for re-entry.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ross, Steve. (2026, January 16). The city's contradictions and frailties drive me to the church. The church, in turn, binds my wounds and soothes my troubled heart, and sends me right back out into the city again. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-citys-contradictions-and-frailties-drive-me-110478/

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Ross, Steve. "The city's contradictions and frailties drive me to the church. The church, in turn, binds my wounds and soothes my troubled heart, and sends me right back out into the city again." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-citys-contradictions-and-frailties-drive-me-110478/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The city's contradictions and frailties drive me to the church. The church, in turn, binds my wounds and soothes my troubled heart, and sends me right back out into the city again." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-citys-contradictions-and-frailties-drive-me-110478/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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