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Daily Inspiration Quote by Cyril Connolly

"The civilized are those who get more out of life than the uncivilized, and for this we are not likely to be forgiven"

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Civilization, in Connolly's hands, isn’t a moral achievement so much as a style of consumption: a talent for extracting more pleasure, nuance, and meaning from the same finite world. The sting comes in the second clause, where refinement stops being a compliment and becomes a provocation. If the “civilized” truly “get more out of life,” then culture isn’t a shared ladder upward; it’s a differential advantage, an unequal yield. Connolly is puncturing the Victorian halo around good taste and education by treating them as technologies of enjoyment - and therefore as sources of resentment.

The subtext is almost aristocratically bleak: people don’t hate elites merely because they hoard money; they hate them because they appear to live better in the deeper sense. The civilized read the book and also know how to talk about it. They notice the light, hear the joke, catch the allusion, savor the meal. That “more” is invisible and therefore harder to justify, which is why it won’t be forgiven. It’s the envy of interior richness, not just external privilege.

Context matters: Connolly, a mid-century British critic with a patrician education and a chronic self-awareness about cultural hierarchy, is writing in a world where “civilization” has already been compromised by war and class tension. The line performs a double move: it defends the life of the mind while admitting its social cost. He’s confessing, with a journalist’s precision and a cynic’s nerve, that taste is a kind of power - and power always makes enemies.

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Connolly, Cyril. (2026, January 17). The civilized are those who get more out of life than the uncivilized, and for this we are not likely to be forgiven. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-civilized-are-those-who-get-more-out-of-life-67378/

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Connolly, Cyril. "The civilized are those who get more out of life than the uncivilized, and for this we are not likely to be forgiven." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-civilized-are-those-who-get-more-out-of-life-67378/.

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"The civilized are those who get more out of life than the uncivilized, and for this we are not likely to be forgiven." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-civilized-are-those-who-get-more-out-of-life-67378/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Cyril Connolly (September 10, 1903 - November 26, 1974) was a Journalist from England.

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