"The common erotic project of destroying women makes it possible for men to unite into a brotherhood; this project is the only firm and trustworthy groundwork for cooperation among males; and all male bonding is based on it"
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The intent is diagnostic, not therapeutic. Dworkin writes from the late-20th-century feminist battles over pornography, rape law, and domestic violence, when “sex” was being marketed as liberation while women described coercion as routine. Her claim hinges on “erotic” as a loaded fuse: she’s arguing that dominance isn’t an accidental byproduct of sex but a learned script that trains men to experience power as pleasure. That’s why “destroying” lands here as both literal and social: physical harm at the extreme end, but also the everyday erosion of women’s autonomy through humiliation, objectification, and disbelief.
The subtext is a challenge to liberal comfort. If male bonding is built on a shared pact to benefit from women’s subordination, then “good men” can’t simply opt out privately; the reward structure is collective. Dworkin’s cynicism is strategic: she’s trying to make complicity visible where culture prefers to call it tradition, camaraderie, or just desire.
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| Topic | Equality |
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| Source | Verified source: Our Blood (Andrea Dworkin, 1976)
Evidence: The common erotic project of destroying women makes it possible for men to unite into a brotherhood; this project is the only firm and trustworthy groundwork for cooperation among males and all male bonding is based on it. (Chapter 8 ("Our Blood: The Slavery of Women in Amerika"), p. 16 (per some editions; quote appears in that chapter)). Primary-source match found in Andrea Dworkin’s book Our Blood (copyright 1976). In the text, the line appears in the discussion of “the pornography of male sadism” and an “idealized… view of male fellowship,” immediately followed by: “This idealized view of male fellowship exposes the essentially homosexual character of male society…”. In the online scan used above, the quote appears in the chapter titled “Our Blood: The Slavery of Women in Amerika” (the table of contents lists this as Chapter 8). Some secondary quote indexes cite it as “Our Blood (1973) p.16,” but the scanned book’s front matter indicates the work was published in 1976 (with a new preface in 1981). I was able to verify the wording exactly, but I cannot, from this scan alone, definitively prove the *first* public delivery/publication date earlier than the 1976 book (e.g., whether the specific sentence was spoken in a 1975 lecture version of the chapter). Other candidates (1) Emotional Histories in the Fight to End Prostitution (Michele Renée Greer, 2022) compilation97.2% ... The common erotic project of destroying women makes it possible for men to unite into a brotherhood ; this projec... |
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Dworkin, Andrea. (2026, February 25). The common erotic project of destroying women makes it possible for men to unite into a brotherhood; this project is the only firm and trustworthy groundwork for cooperation among males; and all male bonding is based on it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-common-erotic-project-of-destroying-women-41057/
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Dworkin, Andrea. "The common erotic project of destroying women makes it possible for men to unite into a brotherhood; this project is the only firm and trustworthy groundwork for cooperation among males; and all male bonding is based on it." FixQuotes. February 25, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-common-erotic-project-of-destroying-women-41057/.
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"The common erotic project of destroying women makes it possible for men to unite into a brotherhood; this project is the only firm and trustworthy groundwork for cooperation among males; and all male bonding is based on it." FixQuotes, 25 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-common-erotic-project-of-destroying-women-41057/. Accessed 3 Mar. 2026.









