"The core of my personality consists of many selves"
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Bender worked in a 20th-century psychological landscape obsessed with coherence: the unified ego, the stable character, the clean diagnostic story. Against that backdrop, “many selves” reads less like a poetic flourish and more like a challenge to the era’s tidy models. The subtext is that normality is not a single voice but a committee, and the job of a person (or a clinician) is not to hunt down the “real” one and fire the rest. It’s to negotiate among them.
There’s also an implicit critique of authority: psychologists are supposed to map the mind from a safe, external distance. Bender folds the observer into the observed, suggesting that expertise doesn’t exempt you from inner contradiction; it just gives you better vocabulary for it. The “core” here isn’t a hidden true self waiting to be uncovered. It’s the ongoing arrangement of roles, moods, drives, and social masks that become “you” through context.
In a century that watched identities get standardized by institutions and shattered by war and modernity, the line feels like a compact defense of complexity: not pathology, not performance, but structure.
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