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Daily Inspiration Quote by Paul Tillich

"The courage to be is the courage to accept oneself, in spite of being unacceptable"

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Tillich puts the knife exactly where modern self-help keeps applying bandages: the problem isn’t that we don’t love ourselves enough, it’s that we suspect there’s something in us that doesn’t deserve love at all. “The courage to be” sounds like a motivational poster until the second clause detonates it. He isn’t talking about confidence or grit. He’s talking about the nerve it takes to stand in the presence of your own “unacceptability” and not flee into denial, performance, or moral bookkeeping.

The line lands because it reverses the usual order of self-acceptance. We like acceptance as a reward for improvement: become acceptable, then you can belong. Tillich, writing in the existentialist shadow of two world wars and the collapse of old certainties, treats anxiety as the baseline human condition. In that landscape, “accept oneself” isn’t indulgence; it’s resistance against despair. The subtext is theological, but it reads psychologically: you cannot outwork the fear that you’re fundamentally flawed, finite, complicit, or doomed. You can only face it.

“Unacceptable” is doing heavy lifting here. It hints at guilt, shame, and the social tribunal inside our heads. Tillich’s Christian inflection suggests that acceptance ultimately comes from beyond the self (grace, not self-esteem), but he frames it as courage because it still requires agency. You have to consent to being seen - by God, by others, by yourself - without guarantees. The intent is bracing: real existence isn’t earned; it’s claimed, trembling, against the evidence.

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Tillich, Paul. (2026, January 18). The courage to be is the courage to accept oneself, in spite of being unacceptable. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-courage-to-be-is-the-courage-to-accept-11368/

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"The courage to be is the courage to accept oneself, in spite of being unacceptable." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-courage-to-be-is-the-courage-to-accept-11368/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Paul Tillich

Paul Tillich (August 20, 1886 - October 22, 1965) was a Theologian from Germany.

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