"The craziest thing I did to get a guy to notice me was going out with his best friend. It worked - he did notice me - but I don't recommend it"
About this Quote
The mechanics of the anecdote are brutally simple: desire turns into strategy, strategy turns into collateral damage. Going out with “his best friend” isn’t just a bid for attention; it’s an escalation that weaponizes proximity and loyalty. The subtext is insecurity dressed up as agency. She’s not pursuing the friend so much as using him as a billboard, a way to force herself into the guy’s field of vision when direct vulnerability feels too risky.
The punchline hinges on that clipped pivot: “It worked” followed by “but.” That “but” is the whole moral universe. She separates the outcome (being noticed) from the cost (hurting people, eroding trust, shrinking your own dignity). Coming from an actress whose public image is tied to teen and young-adult melodrama, the context matters: it’s a behind-the-scenes admission that the romantic plots we consume can leak into real behavior, and that attention is a lousy substitute for intimacy.
She’s selling maturity without sanctimony: yes, it’s effective. No, it’s worth it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Garth, Jennie. (2026, January 16). The craziest thing I did to get a guy to notice me was going out with his best friend. It worked - he did notice me - but I don't recommend it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-craziest-thing-i-did-to-get-a-guy-to-notice-133394/
Chicago Style
Garth, Jennie. "The craziest thing I did to get a guy to notice me was going out with his best friend. It worked - he did notice me - but I don't recommend it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-craziest-thing-i-did-to-get-a-guy-to-notice-133394/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The craziest thing I did to get a guy to notice me was going out with his best friend. It worked - he did notice me - but I don't recommend it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-craziest-thing-i-did-to-get-a-guy-to-notice-133394/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








