"The crime of loving is forgetting"
About this Quote
Coming from an actor who built a persona on charm, lightness, and the controlled performance of feeling, the line reads as both confession and critique. Chevalier understood that affection, especially in public life, is partly theater: lovers want not only devotion but proof of being held in mind. Forgetting is the unglamorous sin that cuts deepest because it suggests you were never central enough to be remembered without effort. The “crime” isn’t that you loved badly; it’s that love’s intensity tempted you into believing memory would take care of itself.
The subtext is almost modern in its psychology. Love can be selfish: we want to be unforgettable, and we punish the other person when life proves otherwise. The line also smuggles in a darker idea about time. Passion fades into routine, routine into omission, and omission becomes the evidence used against you. Chevalier’s era prized romance as a lifelong script; this quote exposes how often the relationship collapses not with a bang, but with a missed detail, an unasked question, an absent-minded drift into elsewhere.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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Chevalier, Maurice. (2026, January 15). The crime of loving is forgetting. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-crime-of-loving-is-forgetting-13558/
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Chevalier, Maurice. "The crime of loving is forgetting." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-crime-of-loving-is-forgetting-13558/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The crime of loving is forgetting." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-crime-of-loving-is-forgetting-13558/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.






