"The criteria for serving one's country should be competence, courage and willingness to serve. When we deny people the chance to serve because of their sexual orientation, we deprive them of their rights of citizenship, and we deprive our armed forces the service of willing and capable Americans"
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The subtext is a rebuke to the era of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” without naming it. By emphasizing “sexual orientation” as an irrelevant characteristic next to battlefield traits, she casts exclusion as irrational bureaucracy masquerading as tradition. The repeated “we deprive” is deliberate indictment: discrimination doesn’t merely harm the excluded; it weakens the institution doing the excluding. That’s strategic, because it shifts the debate from private morality to public consequence.
Her context is the late-20th/early-21st century Senate, where civil-rights arguments often had to be laundered through national-security pragmatism to have a chance. Feinstein’s intent is to make inclusion feel like patriotism, not cultural rebellion. “Rights of citizenship” is the key phrase: service becomes not just a job but a civic seal of belonging. Denying it marks people as second-class Americans - and, pointedly, makes the country smaller than it claims to be.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Feinstein, Diane. (2026, January 17). The criteria for serving one's country should be competence, courage and willingness to serve. When we deny people the chance to serve because of their sexual orientation, we deprive them of their rights of citizenship, and we deprive our armed forces the service of willing and capable Americans. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-criteria-for-serving-ones-country-should-be-74177/
Chicago Style
Feinstein, Diane. "The criteria for serving one's country should be competence, courage and willingness to serve. When we deny people the chance to serve because of their sexual orientation, we deprive them of their rights of citizenship, and we deprive our armed forces the service of willing and capable Americans." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-criteria-for-serving-ones-country-should-be-74177/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The criteria for serving one's country should be competence, courage and willingness to serve. When we deny people the chance to serve because of their sexual orientation, we deprive them of their rights of citizenship, and we deprive our armed forces the service of willing and capable Americans." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-criteria-for-serving-ones-country-should-be-74177/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.



