"The day I initiated divorce proceedings against Michael Farmer, I was ready to retire to a desert cave and rethink my life"
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Then she detonates the image: “ready to retire to a desert cave.” It’s funny in its extremity, but the humor is a defense mechanism. A movie star invoking a hermit’s cave is Swanson yanking the camera away from spectacle toward self-erasure: the fame machine feeds on your private chaos, so the only clean exit is vanishing. The desert suggests purification and punishment at once - less “spa retreat,” more spiritual quarantine. “Rethink my life” lands as both sincere and slightly sardonic, the kind of self-help phrasing that feels too tidy for what divorce actually does to a person’s nervous system.
Context matters: Swanson was a silent-era titan who lived through Hollywood’s most ravenous years, when women were marketed as fantasies and disciplined as cautionary tales. The subtext reads like someone who understands that ending a marriage isn’t just ending a relationship; it’s renegotiating public identity. The cave isn’t solitude. It’s a boundary.
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| Topic | Divorce |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Swanson, Gloria. (2026, January 17). The day I initiated divorce proceedings against Michael Farmer, I was ready to retire to a desert cave and rethink my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-day-i-initiated-divorce-proceedings-against-77067/
Chicago Style
Swanson, Gloria. "The day I initiated divorce proceedings against Michael Farmer, I was ready to retire to a desert cave and rethink my life." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-day-i-initiated-divorce-proceedings-against-77067/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The day I initiated divorce proceedings against Michael Farmer, I was ready to retire to a desert cave and rethink my life." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-day-i-initiated-divorce-proceedings-against-77067/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




