"The days of our lives, for all of us, are numbered. We know that. And yes, there are certainly times when we aren't able to muster as much strength and patience as we would like. It's called being human"
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The craft is in the permission structure. Edwards doesn’t romanticize fragility; she normalizes it. “Muster” is a martial verb, implying that strength is something you assemble on command, like troops. By admitting we can’t always do that, she quietly critiques a culture that expects constant composure, especially from the sick, the grieving, the caregiving, the publicly scrutinized. The final line, “It’s called being human,” lands like a closing argument: not a plea for pity, but an insistence on a more realistic standard of virtue.
Context sharpens the stakes. Edwards, a lawyer and prominent political spouse, spoke from a life lived under fluorescent public attention and, later, under the shadow of cancer and marital betrayal. In that setting, the quote reads as both self-defense and moral correction: you don’t get extra points for stoicism, and you don’t lose your dignity when you run out of it. The intent is compassion with teeth.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Edwards, Elizabeth. (2026, January 17). The days of our lives, for all of us, are numbered. We know that. And yes, there are certainly times when we aren't able to muster as much strength and patience as we would like. It's called being human. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-days-of-our-lives-for-all-of-us-are-numbered-51370/
Chicago Style
Edwards, Elizabeth. "The days of our lives, for all of us, are numbered. We know that. And yes, there are certainly times when we aren't able to muster as much strength and patience as we would like. It's called being human." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-days-of-our-lives-for-all-of-us-are-numbered-51370/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The days of our lives, for all of us, are numbered. We know that. And yes, there are certainly times when we aren't able to muster as much strength and patience as we would like. It's called being human." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-days-of-our-lives-for-all-of-us-are-numbered-51370/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.











