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Parenting & Family Quote by Ben Vereen

"The death of my daughter is a subject I talk about briefly because there is nothing more tragic"

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Grief here is treated like a live wire: you acknowledge it, you don’t hold it. Ben Vereen’s line is striking because it refuses the usual storytelling bargain celebrities are often pushed into - the tidy arc, the inspirational takeaway, the “what it taught me.” Instead, he draws a hard boundary around the worst day of his life and makes that boundary the point. “Briefly” isn’t evasiveness so much as self-protection, and maybe also a quiet refusal to let an audience turn his private catastrophe into consumable public emotion.

The second clause lands like a door closing: “because there is nothing more tragic.” It’s absolute, almost bluntly simple, and that simplicity does two things. It communicates the scale of loss without embellishment, and it preempts comparison. In a culture that constantly ranks suffering - who had it worse, who overcame more - Vereen declines the competition. He’s not arguing that others don’t hurt; he’s saying there are experiences that collapse language, where explanation feels like an insult to the reality.

Context matters because Vereen’s career is built on performance: Broadway polish, charm, the ability to hold a room. This sentence shows the opposite impulse: restraint as honesty. The subtext is that some pain can’t be “performed” without becoming something else - sentiment, spectacle, content. By keeping it brief, he signals respect for his daughter and for the truth of the moment: tragedy that doesn’t convert cleanly into narrative.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vereen, Ben. (2026, January 16). The death of my daughter is a subject I talk about briefly because there is nothing more tragic. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-death-of-my-daughter-is-a-subject-i-talk-101031/

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Vereen, Ben. "The death of my daughter is a subject I talk about briefly because there is nothing more tragic." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-death-of-my-daughter-is-a-subject-i-talk-101031/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The death of my daughter is a subject I talk about briefly because there is nothing more tragic." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-death-of-my-daughter-is-a-subject-i-talk-101031/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Ben Vereen (born October 10, 1946) is a Actor from USA.

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