"The deep, personal material of the latter half of your life is your children. You can write about your parents when they're gone, but your children are still going to be here, and you're going to want them to come and visit you in the nursing home"
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The wit is in the last clause, where high-minded talk of art collapses into the most basic human bargaining chip: who will show up for you when you're old. Munro isn't romanticizing motherhood or demonizing it; she's describing the economics of affection. You can turn your past into literature, but you still have to live in the present with the people you're rendering into characters. That is why the line stings: it acknowledges that a writer's "truth" is never purely aesthetic. It's negotiated, sometimes quietly, sometimes with outright self-censorship, because the consequences aren't theoretical. They're Thanksgiving. They're estrangement. They're the silence of an unvisited room.
In context, it's also a neat capsule of Munro's own territory: domestic life as the arena where power hides in plain sight. She points to the late-life problem every personal storyteller eventually meets - not just "can I write this?" but "what kind of future am I buying with the sentence?"
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| Topic | Parenting |
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Munro, Alice. (n.d.). The deep, personal material of the latter half of your life is your children. You can write about your parents when they're gone, but your children are still going to be here, and you're going to want them to come and visit you in the nursing home. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-deep-personal-material-of-the-latter-half-of-121514/
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Munro, Alice. "The deep, personal material of the latter half of your life is your children. You can write about your parents when they're gone, but your children are still going to be here, and you're going to want them to come and visit you in the nursing home." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-deep-personal-material-of-the-latter-half-of-121514/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The deep, personal material of the latter half of your life is your children. You can write about your parents when they're gone, but your children are still going to be here, and you're going to want them to come and visit you in the nursing home." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-deep-personal-material-of-the-latter-half-of-121514/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.
