"The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated"
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The wording matters. "Craving" is physiological, not aspirational. It casts appreciation less as a nice social extra and more as a psychological nutrient we will scheme, perform, and suffer to obtain. "Appreciated" is also shrewdly chosen over "loved". Appreciation implies evaluation; it is love with a ledger. James is pointing at a culture of status before the word went digital: the self built in mirrors, calibrated through feedback, always at risk of flattening when the room goes quiet.
Context sharpens the edge. James, the pragmatic philosopher and pioneering psychologist, was obsessed with how consciousness and identity form in lived experience, not in abstract systems. In that world, the self is partly social architecture: we become ourselves through recognition and its absence. The quote anticipates what modern life makes unavoidable: workplaces that run on validation masquerading as "culture", politics that rewards applause over policy, and online platforms that monetize the oldest human impulse by turning appreciation into metrics.
The subtext is not merely that we like compliments. It is that appreciation is a moral force and a control mechanism. Whoever can grant it, withhold it, or define its terms holds power over the self. James is warning us, with clinical clarity, that dignity is never purely internal.
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| Topic | Respect |
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