"The duty of helping one's self in the highest sense involves the helping of one's neighbors"
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The phrase "in the highest sense" is the tell. Smiles quietly splits self-interest into two tiers: the low version that hoards, and the "highest" version that proves itself by becoming useful. That small moral qualifier functions like a trapdoor under the reader's feet. You come expecting permission to focus on yourself; you land in obligation to others. It's a clever rhetorical move because it reframes neighbor-help as enlightened self-regard rather than mere charity. Aid isn't framed as pity but as competence and character externalized.
There's also a distinctly Victorian suspicion of dependence here. Smiles wants people to "help themselves", yes, but he also knows that a culture of isolated striving can curdle into cruelty. So he binds self-reliance to reciprocity: your improvement isn't complete until it circulates. The subtext is political without being partisan: social order will hold if individual ambition is disciplined into neighborliness. In that sense, Smiles anticipates a debate we're still stuck in - whether "personal responsibility" is a brake on solidarity or the only way to make solidarity durable.
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| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
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| Source | Unverified source: Self-Help (Samuel Smiles, 1866)
Evidence: Preface (p. vi in the 1866 revised/expanded edition; Gutenberg text shows it at p. vi). The sentence appears verbatim in Smiles’s own Preface: “…that the duty of helping one’s self in the highest sense involves the helping of one’s neighbours.” In the Project Gutenberg transcription, the Preface ... Other candidates (2) Capitalism at Work (Robert L. Bradley, 2014) compilation95.0% ... the duty of helping one's self in the highest sense involves the helping of one's neighbors . Virtue and the Good... Samuel Smiles (Samuel Smiles) compilation37.5% e spirit of selfhelp is the root of all genuine growth in the individual and exhibited in the lives of many it |
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