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Love & Passion Quote by Wilfred Owen

"The English say, Yours Truly, and mean it. The Italians say, I kiss your feet, and mean, I kick your head"

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Politeness is a mask, and Owen is yanking it off with a trench knife. The line turns etiquette into a battlefield of its own: English restraint versus Italian theatricality, both exposed as performances calibrated to power. It’s funny in the way bitterness can be funny - a quick, cruel contrast that lands because it weaponizes national stereotypes the way soldiers swap dark jokes to stay sane.

The construction does most of the work. “Yours Truly” is so drained of meaning it becomes meaning: a ritual phrase that signals reliability precisely because it’s boring. Owen grants it a grudging authenticity (“and mean it”), which reads less like praise than an indictment of how thoroughly the English have professionalized understatement. Then he pivots to the Italians, whose hyperbolic courtesy (“I kiss your feet”) carries the seed of its own reversal. The punchline - “and mean, I kick your head” - is comic violence as translation, a reminder that language is never just language; it’s leverage, threat, theater.

Context matters: Owen is a soldier watching institutions sell death with immaculate phrasing. He lived among officers, clerks, and patriotic editors who could turn slaughter into “service” and “honor.” In that world, the difference between sincerity and style isn’t cultural trivia, it’s survival. The subtext isn’t really about Italians. It’s about distrust - of diplomacy, of niceties, of any sentence that arrives already polished. If courtesy can mean its opposite, then so can every official promise.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Owen, Wilfred. (2026, January 18). The English say, Yours Truly, and mean it. The Italians say, I kiss your feet, and mean, I kick your head. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-english-say-yours-truly-and-mean-it-the-17295/

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Owen, Wilfred. "The English say, Yours Truly, and mean it. The Italians say, I kiss your feet, and mean, I kick your head." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-english-say-yours-truly-and-mean-it-the-17295/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The English say, Yours Truly, and mean it. The Italians say, I kiss your feet, and mean, I kick your head." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-english-say-yours-truly-and-mean-it-the-17295/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Wilfred Owen (March 18, 1893 - November 4, 1918) was a Soldier from England.

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