"The ‘equilibrium’ that people see in me is really an illusion. I am as flawed as anyone. It’s only that I seem to have the knack of hiding"
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The sentence structure does a quiet trick. He concedes the premise people project onto him, then immediately reframes it as their mistake. "Really an illusion" isn’t just modesty; it’s a critique of how easily we outsource our insecurities onto other people’s calm exteriors. The insistence on being "as flawed as anyone" is egalitarian on the surface, but it carries a sharper subtext: society rewards the concealment of mess, not the absence of it.
The final clause is where the cultural diagnosis lands. "It’s only that I seem to have the knack of hiding" admits to a skill, almost a craft. Hiding becomes a competency, something practiced and perfected. Coming from a novelist, the line also reads like a meta-comment on storytelling itself: narratives depend on what’s withheld, what’s revealed, what’s edited into coherence. Segal is confessing that the composed self is a kind of character we write and revise for others, and that the audience often prefers the polished draft to the honest manuscript.
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| Topic | Humility |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Segal, Erich. (2026, January 15). The ‘equilibrium’ that people see in me is really an illusion. I am as flawed as anyone. It’s only that I seem to have the knack of hiding. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-equilibrium-that-people-see-in-me-is-really-173446/
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Segal, Erich. "The ‘equilibrium’ that people see in me is really an illusion. I am as flawed as anyone. It’s only that I seem to have the knack of hiding." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-equilibrium-that-people-see-in-me-is-really-173446/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The ‘equilibrium’ that people see in me is really an illusion. I am as flawed as anyone. It’s only that I seem to have the knack of hiding." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-equilibrium-that-people-see-in-me-is-really-173446/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






