"The fastest way to break the cycle of perfectionism and become a fearless mother is to give up the idea of doing it perfectly - indeed to embrace uncertainty and imperfection"
About this Quote
“Fearless mother” is a savvy rhetorical pivot. Fear is the hidden engine of perfectionism: fear of judgment, fear of harm, fear of being exposed as inadequate. By naming fear, she shifts the stakes from performance to psyche. The implied villain isn’t the child, or even the mother, but the ambient social surveillance surrounding motherhood - the parenting-industrial complex of advice columns, curated Instagram competence, and competitive “doing it right.”
Huffington’s journalist background matters here: she’s fluent in the modern attention economy, where women are invited to treat their lives as projects and their bodies as dashboards. “Embrace uncertainty and imperfection” reads like a permission slip, but it’s also a critique of the culture that withholds that permission in the first place. She isn’t romanticizing mess; she’s pointing to a different kind of control - the control to choose values over appearances.
The subtext is blunt: you don’t become brave by mastering every variable. You become brave by tolerating the fact that you can’t.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Huffington, Arianna. (2026, January 17). The fastest way to break the cycle of perfectionism and become a fearless mother is to give up the idea of doing it perfectly - indeed to embrace uncertainty and imperfection. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-fastest-way-to-break-the-cycle-of-46404/
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Huffington, Arianna. "The fastest way to break the cycle of perfectionism and become a fearless mother is to give up the idea of doing it perfectly - indeed to embrace uncertainty and imperfection." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-fastest-way-to-break-the-cycle-of-46404/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The fastest way to break the cycle of perfectionism and become a fearless mother is to give up the idea of doing it perfectly - indeed to embrace uncertainty and imperfection." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-fastest-way-to-break-the-cycle-of-46404/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.
