"The fight ended. For both was victory. For both there was defeat"
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A clean ending that refuses closure: Wickham lands three blunt sentences, then immediately sabotages the tidy moral people crave from conflict. “The fight ended” sounds like relief, even resolution. Then the line breaks its own promise. “For both was victory. For both there was defeat.” The symmetry is the point and the trap: a grammatical mirror that makes “winning” and “losing” interchangeable, as if the categories were social conveniences rather than real outcomes.
The intent feels less like pacifist platitude and more like a poet’s indictment of the scoreboard mentality. Wickham compresses the emotional logic of intimate battles - marriages, friendships, family power struggles - where a concession can be a triumph and a triumph can hollow you out. The subtext is that the fight’s conclusion is not the same as its consequence. When the adrenaline drops, what’s left is mutual damage, mutual revelation, mutual change. Even the victor inherits what the conflict produced: guilt, distance, a new imbalance of power.
Context matters with Wickham, a modernist-era poet whose work often sharpens domestic life into something political. These lines read like a counterspell to heroic narratives that dominated public life in the early 20th century: war rhetoric, masculine honor, “decisive” outcomes. By stripping away any detail of the fight, she makes it portable; the scene can be a battlefield or a kitchen. The brilliance is the austerity. No metaphors, no flourish - just the uncomfortable arithmetic of human struggle, where the ending doesn’t settle the account, it totals it.
The intent feels less like pacifist platitude and more like a poet’s indictment of the scoreboard mentality. Wickham compresses the emotional logic of intimate battles - marriages, friendships, family power struggles - where a concession can be a triumph and a triumph can hollow you out. The subtext is that the fight’s conclusion is not the same as its consequence. When the adrenaline drops, what’s left is mutual damage, mutual revelation, mutual change. Even the victor inherits what the conflict produced: guilt, distance, a new imbalance of power.
Context matters with Wickham, a modernist-era poet whose work often sharpens domestic life into something political. These lines read like a counterspell to heroic narratives that dominated public life in the early 20th century: war rhetoric, masculine honor, “decisive” outcomes. By stripping away any detail of the fight, she makes it portable; the scene can be a battlefield or a kitchen. The brilliance is the austerity. No metaphors, no flourish - just the uncomfortable arithmetic of human struggle, where the ending doesn’t settle the account, it totals it.
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