"The first dog I had was owned by an abusive couple. He was very skittish. He wouldn't let me hold him. It was explained to me that it was because of how he was treated"
About this Quote
The phrasing “owned by an abusive couple” is quietly loaded. It points at the moral contradiction of ownership without care, possession without responsibility. Then he pivots to “It was explained to me,” a line that matters more than it seems. It places Affleck in the position many people occupy when they first encounter harm up close: not the perpetrator, not the savior, but the witness being initiated into an ugly logic. The dog’s fear isn’t irrational; it’s learned.
There’s an actor’s instinct here for backstory, for motivation that doesn’t need to be spoken to be felt. The dog becomes a proxy for how damage shows up in everyday behavior, and how easy it is to misread that behavior if you don’t know the past. Culturally, it taps into the way animals often make cruelty legible when humans would rather look away. A skittish dog is a living receipt, and Affleck’s restraint invites the listener to sit with that discomfort rather than launder it into inspiration.
Quote Details
| Topic | Dog |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Affleck, Casey. (2026, January 17). The first dog I had was owned by an abusive couple. He was very skittish. He wouldn't let me hold him. It was explained to me that it was because of how he was treated. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-dog-i-had-was-owned-by-an-abusive-43785/
Chicago Style
Affleck, Casey. "The first dog I had was owned by an abusive couple. He was very skittish. He wouldn't let me hold him. It was explained to me that it was because of how he was treated." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-dog-i-had-was-owned-by-an-abusive-43785/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The first dog I had was owned by an abusive couple. He was very skittish. He wouldn't let me hold him. It was explained to me that it was because of how he was treated." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-dog-i-had-was-owned-by-an-abusive-43785/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.






