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Education Quote by Gloria Steinem

"The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn"

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Steinem’s line lands like a crowbar aimed at the polite idea of “progress” as simple accumulation. Unlearning is a rougher verb than learning: it implies not curiosity but conflict, not adding tools but prying loose the ones you were handed. As a feminist organizer speaking into a culture that treated sexism as nature, not policy, she’s naming the real barrier to change: the habits and “common sense” that feel neutral precisely because they’re everywhere.

The syntax does quiet, strategic work. “The first problem” frames social transformation as triage; before you chase new theories, you have to stop the bleeding from old ones. “For all of us, men and women” is coalition language with an edge: patriarchy isn’t just something men do to women, it’s a training program everyone graduates from. That universality isn’t sentimental; it’s accusatory. If everyone’s been schooled in these assumptions, then everyone has homework.

The subtext is about power and comfort. Learning can flatter the learner; unlearning threatens identity. It asks people to admit that what they were praised for - being “ladylike,” being “a real man,” being “not political” - was a script. In the context of second-wave feminism’s push against institutions (work, marriage, media), Steinem’s point is tactical: you don’t win by sprinkling new facts over old hierarchies. You win by making the inherited story feel untenable, then offering something better to replace it.

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Later attribution: Problem Solving (J.G. Ferguson Publishing Company, Dan..., 2004) modern compilationISBN: 9780816055227 · ID: Rc8KI_gBq7YC
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"The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn." FixQuotes, 25 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-problem-for-all-of-us-men-and-women-is-48532/. Accessed 14 Mar. 2026.

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Gloria Steinem

Gloria Steinem (born March 25, 1934) is a Activist from USA.

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