"The first step... shall be to lose the way"
About this Quote
The intent feels both spiritual and stubbornly bodily, in line with a poet who distrusted clean, managerial versions of the self. Mid- to late-20th-century American poetry is crowded with quests for authenticity that don’t survive contact with ordinary grief, sex, family, and mortality. Kinnell’s work often insists that whatever is true will not arrive polished. “Lose the way” is a refusal of the tidy narrative, the idea that you can optimize your life into enlightenment.
The subtext is a critique of control: maps are authority, and authority is often a story we tell to keep panic at bay. He’s also quietly warning the reader that transformation costs dignity. To lose your way is to surrender the identity that knows where it’s going, to endure the humiliations of uncertainty, to risk arriving somewhere you didn’t intend and can’t easily explain.
Contextually, it reads like a postwar, post-ideology line: skeptical of grand systems, allergic to certainty, but not nihilistic. The destination isn’t despair. It’s a deeper kind of attention, earned only after the plan collapses.
Quote Details
| Topic | New Beginnings |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: The Book of Nightmares (Galway Kinnell, 1971)
Evidence: the way: the first step, the Crone who scried the crystal said, shall be to lose the way. (Page 19 (in the poem/section often titled “The Shoes of Wandering”)). This wording is not a standalone aphorism in Kinnell; it appears as lines within his book-length poem sequence The Book of Nightmares, in the section commonly printed/quoted as “The Shoes of Wandering.” Multiple secondary scholarly discussions quote it and explicitly give the location as p. 19 of The Book of Nightmares. However, I did not retrieve a scan of the 1971 Houghton Mifflin first edition page itself in this search session; the page number is corroborated by scholarly PDFs quoting the line with “(p. 19)”. Other candidates (1) Critical Essays on Galway Kinnell (Nancy Lewis Tuten, 1996)95.0% ... the first step ... / shall be / to lose the way " ( p . 19 ) . To find what he is seeking , he will have to forsa... |
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