"The first thing a kindness deserves is acceptance, the second, transmission"
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Then comes the bracing second demand: transmission. Kindness isn’t meant to terminate in gratitude; it’s meant to circulate. The line anticipates what we’d now call “pay it forward,” but with less bumper-sticker sentimentality and more moral architecture. He’s wary of kindness becoming a sealed exchange between two people that produces hierarchy (benefactor vs. dependent). Transmission dissolves the ledger. You don’t repay the same person; you keep the current moving.
Context matters: MacDonald, a Victorian novelist and Christian moral imagination powerhouse, wrote in an era obsessed with charity, respectability, and the policing of the “deserving poor.” This sentence quietly rebels against condescension. It imagines a community where receiving isn’t shameful and giving isn’t self-crowning. The subtext is almost stern: accept help without theatrics, then become the kind of person through whom help travels.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
MacDonald, George. (2026, January 17). The first thing a kindness deserves is acceptance, the second, transmission. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-thing-a-kindness-deserves-is-acceptance-70677/
Chicago Style
MacDonald, George. "The first thing a kindness deserves is acceptance, the second, transmission." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-thing-a-kindness-deserves-is-acceptance-70677/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The first thing a kindness deserves is acceptance, the second, transmission." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-thing-a-kindness-deserves-is-acceptance-70677/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











