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Motivation Quote by Tony Dungy

"The first thing you have to do is make sure you're still wanted back. I never take that for granted any more"

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There’s a quiet sting of realism in Dungy’s line: the job isn’t yours until other people decide it still is. Coming from a coach, it lands as less self-pity than professional discipline. Coaching culture loves the myth of authority - the leader who “sets the tone” and commands loyalty. Dungy flips that hierarchy. Before you talk scheme, motivation, or legacy, you check the simplest, most uncomfortable metric: do they still want you in the building?

The subtext is about how quickly trust decays in high-performance environments. Teams don’t just evaluate wins and losses; they evaluate vibe, energy, credibility, and whether your message has gone stale. “Wanted back” is deliberately plain language, almost domestic, which makes the power dynamic feel more personal and more fragile. It’s not “retained” or “extended.” It’s wanted. That word turns a contract into a relationship.

“I never take that for granted any more” hints at a scar: a moment when he did take it for granted and learned the hard way. Even the most respected coaches can be swapped out when a locker room tunes out, an owner wants a new story, or the franchise needs a scapegoat. Dungy’s intent reads like advice to younger leaders: assume your legitimacy is on a short leash and re-earn it every cycle. In an industry built on control, he’s describing humility as a survival skill - not a virtue badge, but a realistic posture toward a job where acceptance is constantly renegotiated.

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Dungy, Tony. (n.d.). The first thing you have to do is make sure you're still wanted back. I never take that for granted any more. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-thing-you-have-to-do-is-make-sure-youre-105547/

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Dungy, Tony. "The first thing you have to do is make sure you're still wanted back. I never take that for granted any more." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-thing-you-have-to-do-is-make-sure-youre-105547/.

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"The first thing you have to do is make sure you're still wanted back. I never take that for granted any more." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-first-thing-you-have-to-do-is-make-sure-youre-105547/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Tony Dungy (born October 6, 1955) is a Coach from USA.

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