"The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose"
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The subtext is shrewd: kindness has returns, but they’re not transactional in the crude sense. The giver doesn’t keep the rose; they keep the aftereffect. That’s a deft way to reconcile moral duty with the era’s rising emphasis on character-building and self-culture. In a century obsessed with respectability, public service, and the credibility of reform, Curtis offers a portable incentive: do good and your own inner life is improved, even if no one applauds.
There’s also a gentle corrective aimed at cynics. If you assume giving only impoverishes you, Curtis answers with sensory counterevidence: the best parts of generosity are often the parts you can’t hand over. It’s a sentence built to be remembered because it flatters neither martyrdom nor greed. It insists that decency is contagious, and that the first person it changes is the one doing it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Later attribution: Roses Down Under (Dawn Eagle, 2013) modern compilationISBN: 9781483692586 · ID: wr-XAgAAQBAJ
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... The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose – George William Curtis New rose varieties are produced in one of two ways – hybridizing or sporting . Sports arise from shoots which produce an unusual growth in some way ... |
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Curtis, George William. (2026, February 14). The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-fragrance-always-stays-in-the-hand-that-gives-91667/
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Curtis, George William. "The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose." FixQuotes. February 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-fragrance-always-stays-in-the-hand-that-gives-91667/.
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"The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose." FixQuotes, 14 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-fragrance-always-stays-in-the-hand-that-gives-91667/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.









