"The girls are a complete joy and I love their passion. They argue with me like mad and I love that too"
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Parenthood, in Bob Geldof's telling, isn't a soft-focus refuge from conflict; it's a front-row seat to it. "Complete joy" arrives in the same breath as "argue with me like mad", and the line lands because it refuses the sentimental script that fathers are meant to project: calm authority, grateful daughters, harmony as proof of love. Geldof flips the metric. The arguing isn't a problem to manage, it's evidence that something has gone right.
The intent is almost disarmingly simple: to praise his daughters without turning them into ornaments. "Passion" is the key word, doing double duty. It frames their intensity as moral energy rather than "attitude", and it also telegraphs the kind of household he values: one where people care enough to clash. There's a wink of self-portraiture here too. This is a man whose public persona has long been built on loud conviction and impatience with complacency; of course he'd find affection in an argument. He's not claiming he's an easy parent. He's saying he's proud they're not easy children.
Subtext: the argument is a kind of intimacy, a sign the relationship can survive friction. Many families teach girls to smooth edges, keep the peace, make themselves smaller. Geldof's line celebrates the opposite: daughters who take up space and don't outsource their anger. That makes the quote quietly political, even if it arrives dressed as a warm aside. It's a father learning to be challenged, and choosing, notably, not to win.
The intent is almost disarmingly simple: to praise his daughters without turning them into ornaments. "Passion" is the key word, doing double duty. It frames their intensity as moral energy rather than "attitude", and it also telegraphs the kind of household he values: one where people care enough to clash. There's a wink of self-portraiture here too. This is a man whose public persona has long been built on loud conviction and impatience with complacency; of course he'd find affection in an argument. He's not claiming he's an easy parent. He's saying he's proud they're not easy children.
Subtext: the argument is a kind of intimacy, a sign the relationship can survive friction. Many families teach girls to smooth edges, keep the peace, make themselves smaller. Geldof's line celebrates the opposite: daughters who take up space and don't outsource their anger. That makes the quote quietly political, even if it arrives dressed as a warm aside. It's a father learning to be challenged, and choosing, notably, not to win.
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