"The good guy only gets the girl in a soppy way"
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The subtext is a quiet critique of how film and TV flatten women into prizes and men into categories. "Good guy" here isn't an ethical ideal; it's a stock character type, often contrasted with the thrilling "bad boy". D'Arcy suggests that when the good guy does "get the girl", its rarely electric or surprising. It's dutiful, tidy, and emotionally coercive in its own way: the audience is asked to applaud him for basic human behavior, and she's asked to validate it.
Contextually, this lands in the post-90s rom-com hangover and the later backlash against "nice guy" entitlement. The line isn't anti-romance; it's anti-formula, skeptical of a culture that turns affection into meritocracy and then films it in pastel.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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D'arcy, James. (n.d.). The good guy only gets the girl in a soppy way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-good-guy-only-gets-the-girl-in-a-soppy-way-133016/
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D'arcy, James. "The good guy only gets the girl in a soppy way." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-good-guy-only-gets-the-girl-in-a-soppy-way-133016/.
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"The good guy only gets the girl in a soppy way." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-good-guy-only-gets-the-girl-in-a-soppy-way-133016/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








